Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev

ungratified physical compulsions, is within the reach of every human being, if only we make the journey from compulsiveness to consciousness.

You as a person are a body, a certain accumulation of experience and information which has formed certain attitudes.

This is happening in every relationship. Instead of recognizing that someone is fulfilling your needs, you think you are doing a great job for them. When something goes wrong somewhere, you think, “He is responsible.” The moment you point your finger towards someone, this is the beginning of a bad relationship.
Relationships are about people. Different relationships need to be conducted in different ways. But love is not about someone. It is not relation-specific. You could simply be loving with just about anything, and that is how you should be with the whole existence.

you feel wonderful within, you will naturally do wonderful things to other people. If you feel nasty within, you will naturally share your nastiness with other people. In that sense, love is a very important factor in everyone’s life. Love means your emotions have become pleasant.

“Don’t try to manage the other person. Just see how to include the other person.”

If you have to digest any food, certain enzymes are necessary for the digestive process to happen. All the enzymes necessary for the digestive process are not present in the body alone, the food that you eat also brings these enzymes.
When you cook the food generally you're destroying almost 90 percent of these enzymes. So when you eat this food minus the enzymes the body cannot digest it. So it is trying to reconstitute some of the enzymes

ungratified physical compulsions, is within the reach of every human being, if only we make the journey from compulsiveness to consciousness.

You as a person are a body, a certain accumulation of experience and information which has formed certain attitudes.

This is happening in every relationship. Instead of recognizing that someone is fulfilling your needs, you think you are doing a great job for them. When something goes wrong somewhere, you think, “He is responsible.” The moment you point your finger towards someone, this is the beginning of a bad relationship.
Relationships are about people. Different relationships need to be conducted in different ways. But love is not about someone. It is not relation-specific. You could simply be loving with just about anything, and that is how you should be with the whole existence.

you feel wonderful within, you will naturally do wonderful things to other people. If you feel nasty within, you will naturally share your nastiness with other people. In that sense, love is a very important factor in everyone’s life. Love means your emotions have become pleasant.