James Hollis

Howard M. Halpern, How to Break Your Addiction to a Person, pp. 13ff.

was told that to consider myself was to be selfish. Even today I feel guilty when I refer to myself or use the word self.

darker days still returns to his place of departure to get some clue as to who he is and what his life represents.

We will never know for certain how free or determined we really are, but we are obliged, as the existentialists reminded us, to act as if we were free

We remain most socially useful when we have something unique, our fullest possible selves, to offer. Jung again:

We may become strangers to those who thought they knew us, but at least we are no longer strangers to ourselves.

We may become strangers to those who thought they knew us, but at least we are no longer strangers to ourselves.

In part her emotional neediness drove men away and in part she unconsciously chose emotionally remote men.