“But if you’re with someone, don’t they deserve to know everything about you?”
“Deserve? No. That implies a right, an entitlement, and I don’t agree with that. Do I think it’s healthy to talk and share important events in our lives? Absolutely. But I won’t demand it from you, and neither would I want to feel obligated to share everything with you. It’s a privilege and an honor, but never a right, not even in a relationship. People still deserve a modicum of privacy.”