Over the Top

e are never too broken to heal

’m always improving but there are setbacks within the improvement.

Would you love me if you saw all my parts?

Imperfection is beautiful.
To anyone who has ever felt broken
beyond repair, this is for you.
If you’ve ever been excluded,
or told you were not enough,
know that you are enough,
and beautifully complete.

Steve taught me to let go of my fear and try something new. All I had to lose was the moment, and a moment is something that we should never let go to waste.

Being able to entertain yourself is a valuable skill, especially if you’re in a prolonged dark space.

People love to say “Be yourself”—but for me, there was no choice! I was too gorgeously myself, with femininity dripping from every pore—I had no option to be anything but myself. She’s as gay as they come, honey.

There was a multitude of reasons my personality was bigger than Dolly Parton’s hair. There was an emptiness I was trying to fill, an unspeakable shame I was trying to soothe. So many things I wasn’t able to talk about yet.

Shan-Shan got screwed, much like Beyoncé got screwed to Adele in the 2017 Grammys)

can live beside sorrow. Life is messy, unpredictable, and seldom tied into neat little boxes.