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Citati iz knjige „How to Have That Difficult Conversation“ autora Henry Cloud,John Townsend

Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
Be aware of how present or absent you are in the talk.
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
We need to be willing to suffer discomfort
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
Presence and connection help to make it tolerable.
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
A hot-tempered man must pay the penalty; if you rescue him, you will have to do it again”
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
When a relationship has love but no truth, it either keeps the people too comfortable or even makes them more immature
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
Healthy confrontations help people grow emotionally, relationally, and spiritually
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
What is ignored tends not to be solved.
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
We feel a sense of power that we can make changes and we have choices
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
Nothing is more miserable than to be in a relationship with someone, yet disconnected from her at the same time
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses” (Prov. 27:6).
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
Love needs protection
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
People with good boundaries are clear about their opinions, beliefs, and attitudes
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
boundary is your personal “property line
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
Things can change when the person experiencing the effects of the problem takes the initiative to resolve it.
Sebastian Carvajal
Sebastian Carvajalje citiraoпре 2 године
The person who has the problem in a relationship often isn’t taking responsibility for his problem
Rap Lim Carmona
Rap Lim Carmonaje citiralaпре 3 године
“I don’t want you to think I’m coming at this from a ‘better than you’ place. I don’t like what you did. But I have done the same thing [or similar, or worse, or hurtful things] also. At those times what I needed was, first of all, to know that it was going to be okay, and, second, to feel as if someone wanted to help. I want you to know that this is how I feel. I want to talk about how to make it better and grow past this.”
Rap Lim Carmona
Rap Lim Carmonaje citiralaпре 3 године
“So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened” (Luke 11:5 – 10).
Rap Lim Carmona
Rap Lim Carmonaje citiralaпре 3 године
“I don’t want you to feel I’m here just to dump on you or make you feel bad. That’s not my intention at all. I want us to talk about how we can make this better, and I want to know if there’s anything I can do to help you. I’m on your team here.”
Rap Lim Carmona
Rap Lim Carmonaje citiralaпре 3 године
What I had been doing wrong was bringing up a problem to people in an isolated context, and it felt as if a bomb had hit. Not only that, but the tone with which I confronted others was even worse. They said I seemed irritated, bothered, and critical.
Rap Lim Carmona
Rap Lim Carmonaje citiralaпре 3 године
The basic message you want to convey is that you care about the person; you notice things he is doing well, or you let him know you are on his side. The key phrase is this: Be on his or her side.
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