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Michael Reist

Raising Emotionally Healthy Boys

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We can invoke Barbara Coloroso’s three questions: Is it harmful to the child? Is it harmful to others? Does it violate a moral code? If the answer to all three questions is no, then go ahead and enjoy.
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• Touching different textures
• Getting a back rub, a bear hug, or a hand or foot massage
• Wrestling
• Rough-housing
• Play fighting
• Spinning
• Rolling
• Hopping
• Somersaulting
• Rocking
• Jumping
• Swinging
• Balancing on a board or ball
• Running
• Stretching
• Lifting
• Pushing
• Pulling
• Hanging by the arms
• Extending and flexing the joints
Massiel Del Villarje citiraoпре 2 године
• Playing with water
• Playing with sand
Massiel Del Villarje citiraoпре 2 године
Sometimes hitting a sister means “I love being with her and I want more of her attention.”
Massiel Del Villarje citiraoпре 2 године
In order to raise emotionally healthy children, we need to take care of our own emotional health, and this means working on our relationships with other adults including our romantic relationships. We must never take our sustaining relationships for granted. When a parent becomes socially and emotionally isolated, it is not good for children.
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Seeing Our Children for Who They Really Are
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What’s best for the child?” If we did ask this question, we would give the child more opportunities to practise power and control.
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Our Unresolved Need for Power and Control
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We must never take our sustaining relationships for granted
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Take Care of Our Sustaining Relationships
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We need to be careful as parents that we do not unconsciously reproduce any negative parenting we received or let our resentments or anger about particular childhood experiences taint our enjoyment of the present
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that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”
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“The one thing you can’t take away from me is the way I choose to respond to what you do to me. The last of one’s freedoms is to choose one’s attitude in any given circumstance.”
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The child’s behaviour is in reaction to the parent’s conscious and unconscious core beliefs and behaviour.
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The Unconscious Parent
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emotionally available to our children
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The Narcissistic Wound
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Healing Our Inner Child
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It means looking at past hurts, reflecting on them, and letting them go.
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We will be able to accept our children for who they are when we are able to accept ourselves for who we are
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