Tantric Sex

Now, it may seem paradoxical, but if you aim to reach orgasm, then it will be harder for you to get there. So, your aim in a tantric session is not to reach orgasm. Your aim should be to just enjoy it. The orgasm will come when it comes.

Do you see the difference?

When your pursuit of a sexual encounter is orgasm, you will find that it’s nearly impossible to get it.

As for women, orgasm is a mix of emotions, physical sensations, and a sense of security. When you combine all of these elements, it’s possible to reach unbelievable heights of sexual pleasure. However, women can be betrayed by their emotions. For example, if a woman feels uncomfortable about anything surrounding the encounter (such as feeling guilty about it), reaching orgasm can be quite difficult. By the same token, if she feels insecure about her physical appearance, this can also lead her to have difficulty reaching orgasm.

This is one of the biggest mistakes that couples make: they let other things get in the way during their encounters. Please bear in mind that tantric sex is about the here and the now. So, when you are getting it on, nothing else matters.

This concept doesn’t apply just to phones and email. It also applies to anything else that might be creeping up in your mind.

For example, if you are concerned about your physical appearance, say, you’re concerned about being overweight, then you will find that you won’t be able to get as much out of your encounters as you’d like. Based on this concept, you really, truly, need to let go.

So what if you’re not physically perfect?

So what if you’re not the biggest?

So what if you’re not the most attractive?

If you are attractive and desirable to someone who is willing to engage in tantric sex with you, then it’s just a matter of going with it. In the end, you’ll enjoy the relationship far more simply because you are able to let go of your hang-ups.

The fact of the matter is that we get in our own way. Most of the time, there is genuine attraction and chemistry. But when you don’t give yourself a chance to really enjoy intercourse, then you find your mind more concerned about a million other things. Needless to say, this isn’t the most exciting mindset.

The overwhelming majority of tantra practitioners would much rather get with someone who shares their same mindset rather than someone who’s merely good-looking. This means that tantric sex is much more than just looking good; it’s about being able to translate your passion and desire into a tangible force that can open up the floodgates to amazing experiences of pleasure and ecstasy.

By “surrender,” we’re not talking about some kind of domination thing. We’re talking about letting yourself go and giving yourself to your partner. This is the core tenet of tantric sex. You must be willing to give all of yourself, even for a brief moment, before you are truly able to channel your energy into the powerful force that tantric sex can unleash. If you are holding back, then you won’t be able to fully harness your sexual energy.

This is where people end up feeling shallow and empty. Sure, they may be sleeping with very attractive people, but at the end of the day, they don’t get as much fulfillment out of it as they would expect. In fact, this is where you see extremely attractive people debase themselves simply because they don’t enjoy intercourse.