He Did You a Favor: A Smart Girl's Guide to Breaking Up, Waking Up, and Discovering the Gift of You

Thank you.” Be grateful you are out of this relationship that’s been beating you down.

This type of guy has no interest in changing his single status. I’ve dated these guys, too, and trust me it’s a lose-lose situation. Do your own cut-and-run and get the heck out of there. Give yourself space and find someone else.

Time with you interferes with what I really want, which is to stay single.

Go shopping and get a promise ring to signify your love for you (you don’t have to spend a lot of money, just find one that fits well and makes you smile when you look at it)

So when heartbreak occurs why not create a new you as well?

It happened so you can learn how to have more satisfying relationships and attract men who’ll treat you like the amazing woman you are.