Ask for what you want. If you don’t get it, decide if it really matters or not. If it does, then ask again in a loving way. Find a loving way to help others give you what you want. If it doesn’t really matter, let it go and move on to something more fun. As long as you are coming from a loving place, a resolution will happen, one way or the other. Your clarity and love will break down resistance – either yours or theirs – so that you can move on in joy.