Deepening Your Personal Relationships

Any kind of predetermined, controlled, sexual technique blocks loving feelings and spontaneous, natural discharge of sexual energies, because the man and the woman are not fully given over to each other

For a love relationship to be most happy and fulfilling, there has to be a natural spontaneous balance between times of intimacy and emotional closeness, as well as opportunities to take time to engage in your own special private activities, in order to keep growing and developing as an individual. Only as both partners are growing as individuals, by developing their individual interests, potentials, and capabilities, can the relationship continue growing and developing and be optimally fulfilling

A man and a woman need to warm each other not only with physical affection on the outside, but also with deep spiritual connection in the heart core inside

When their life energies intermingle, in the heart, mind, and body as they share their experiential energy openly and honestly with each other, in that relational contact of life energies, there is a subtle energy presence of loving warmth that is experienced, not necessarily fully consciously in the core of the heart.

relationship to be simply too precious ever to lose. This has to be grounded in a man and a woman becoming best friends to each other first, primarily through open, honest, deep, and non-critical, communication between them, as well as through a devotion to unconditional acceptance of each other.

on earth for themselves if they are willing to love deeply and unselfishly enough, connect to each other in the core of the heart, and if they are able to live in the now moment.

Thus, a man and a woman can build a veritable “heaven” or “paradise”

The masculine energy is predominantly a nature of destiny, achievement, growth-oriented, striving, whereas the feminine energy of the woman is more naturally inclined to enjoy the fruits of the growth that they achieve together. He has a vision for where he is going, and, therefore, she has to follow him as her leader

the woman needs to trust the psychologically mature man to teach her what it takes to make a real love relationship work

n many cases, the basic issue, the basic problem, that makes male/female relationships fail, is not having married the wrong partner, but the conflicting, overly-competitive, divisive, selfish, prideful attitude that many people bring into their relationships